I don't mean to get defensive but when you get lumped into a group of the most despicable, disgusting category of people it really does make you unhappy. Especially when you come from a military family, and you only have one living relative left. They are all dead most died from cancer, and I watched the VA turn their back on them when they needed them the most.
I may not have served, but I always tried to give back the best way I could. I donated thousands of dollars of my own money to the DAV, and the Wounded Warrior Project. I stopped donating to the Wounded Warrior Project when I found out. Their CEO was hosting big parties on donation money, and it wasn't going to the veterans. I did electrical work for military friends, and family members that served free of charge never charge them a dime. One of them recently passed away last year due to a heart attack. Me and another buddy made it a mission to sell his collection to get his family the most money we could. We also tried to help with the funeral cost, but the family refused that sort of donation from us. My family business has also tried to make an mission to hire veterans. And on top of that I paid for a memorial brick for my grandfather in the Greenfield War Memorial. Just for the record he wasn't my blood grandfather, but I loved him that much as if he was. And to summon all of this up I never wanted recognition, or a thanks for any of this. I did it out of the goodness of my heart.